In truth - you may not! Death doulas serve as an advocate for the dying and/or their families. Sometimes, there are situations where the dying and their family are not in agreement regarding the dying process, and a death doula can serve as an advocate for the dying’s wants and wishes.
When I worked in assisted living, I noticed that dying could be a very lonely process. As jobs and working have been prioritized and the skyrocketing costs of travel, many people die without their family and loved ones around, sometimes separated by the entire country. A UN report in June 2025 noted that every hour, 100 people die of loneliness-related causes.
We are not healthcare professionals and are not a replacement for both physical medical care or mental health care. I do not provide hands-on medical care and do not interfere in the choices of the dying and their medical professionals or family. My clients guide the services provided and I am there as a support system and advocate only. Death doulas provide additional support alongside spiritual, emotional and community based supports.
While there is no specific ‘training’ for death doulas, I received my end-of-life doula certificate through IAP Career College in 2025. This training program outlines the basics for what death doulas provide and has complimented my existing experience practicing.
In short - yes. I believe all people should be able to die with dignity and I believe medical aid in dying allows for that. As a death doula, I will advocate for others and/or clients to have this care should they wish. However, to reiterate - I will never provide medical care or medical aid in dying.
Yes, I do charge an hourly rate for most services. For living and death vigils, I apply a package pricing depending on what services are desired.
My legal name is not Mynerva Archer - it is my affirmed name. If you would like to see my credentials, please contact me!
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